Pilar A.
Certified Peer Supporter · North Bergen, NJ
Hello, it’s wonderful to be here amongst peers, who understand the journey of healing and recovery. As a peer specialist and coach (not a therapist or counsellor), I host several processing groups. I also do 1:1…
average from 398 reviews
group meetings hosted
one-on-one sessions
supporting peers on HeyPeers since
Support groups
Upcoming meetings with Pilar
Codependency: The Disease To Please
About Pilar
I'm a National Certified Peer Support and Recovery Specialist (NCPS and NCPRSS). I have experience with chronic pain, fibromyalgia, long Covid, Misophonia, trauma, narcissistic/sociopathic/psychopathic abuse, cults/religious/spiritual leader abuse, church hurt and trauma, difficulty setting boundaries, decades of domestic violence, sexual abuse, anxiety, panic disorder, cPTSD, OCD, ADHD, Bi-Polar 1 disorder mixed episodes rapid cycling, anorexia, body dysmorphia, excoriation disorder, addictions to alcohol, drugs, love, sex, romance, gambling, food, sugar, hoarding/cluttering, debt, overspending, overwhelm, shame, and fear. If you experience any one of these things, you are not alone. My faith in Jesus Christ is an important part of who I am. God has taken the ugliest parts of my life and transformed them for the good. My testimony is being used to help others and spread hope to those around me. Never Give Up! I offer a safe, compassionate, judgment-free space for those who want support from someone who truly cares and understands. As an internationally and nationally board-certified peer support and recovery professional, and certified life, mental health, trauma recovery, and recovery coach, I combine my professional training with personal lived experience to help people feel seen, heard, supported, and empowered on their healing journey. FOR 1:1's, SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY. I charge $25 hr.
My Recovery Story
My quality of life today is good and I’ve been in recovery and sober for 10 years now.
My Motivation To Help
I’ve been through a great deal in my life and had no support. I want to offer what I didn’t get.
My Chatrooms
-
Setting Boundaries 56 membersSign in to join
-
Trauma Survivors Chat 92 membersSign in to join
-
Freedom From Shame 25 membersSign in to join
-
50+ and Up Women Support Chat 77 membersSign in to join
-
Romance Scams Recovery 21 membersSign in to join
-
Chronic Illness Circle 3 membersSign in to join
-
Narcissistic Abuse Support Chat 117 membersSign in to join
-
Daily Christian Devotions 32 membersSign in to join
-
Celebrate Recovery: Freedom from Addictions 109 membersSign in to join
State Certification on file
Verified by HeyPeers · View
Ready to connect?
Create a free account to message Pilar or request 1-on-1 peer support.
Sign up to connectPeer voices
What peers say about Pilar
based on 398 ratings
"Sincere, good at checking in with everyone, good opportunity to connect with folks in the same boat. "
Ryan S.
Chronic Illness Circle · November 2026
"Phenomenal!!!"
Sun R.
Chronic Illness Circle · November 2026
"Very lovely"
Makenzie G.
Chronic Illness Circle · November 2026
You don't have to do this alone
Create a free account to connect with Pilar, join meetings and chatrooms, and take the first step at your own pace.
